Thanks for writing in with your question about divorce. Oftentimes, it can be quite hard for someone to open up to anyone and share the most intimate details about their relationship or marriage. So thanks again. I know that divorce is something that is not taken care of over night. You asked how to get your ex back? Well, one of the first things you can do is stop obsessing about it. You need to give her time to think about things, and definitely time to think about you in the picture again. Just give her the space she needs for the moment. After some time, try to set up a time to just talk in a non threatening environment. And keep the subject matter light. If you start light and eventually get to the tougher topics you will be straightening the trust level so you will be able to deal with issues that matter and have the trust already in place.